Every psychotherapy has its own philosophy

Rembrandt, Filozof u meditaciji, 1632
Rembrandt, Philosopher in Meditation, 1632 (Louvre, Paris). Public domain. Rembrant, 1632.

People looking for psychotherapy rarely ask about its philosophy. They ask whether it helps, how long it takes and what it costs. Those are good questions. But beneath every psychotherapy, even the most practical one, lies an answer to a question nobody asks aloud: what is a human being, and what should they be like once they are better?

A hidden picture of the human being

Every school of psychotherapy carries a picture of the human being. For some, a person is a set of habits that can be relearned. For others, a being that strives to grow and simply needs an obstacle removed. For others still, a being divided within itself, who will never fully know what it wants. These pictures are not the results of measurement but philosophical assumptions, and a great deal depends on them: what counts as a symptom, what counts as a cure, when the work is done. A psychotherapy that does not know its philosophy does not work without philosophy. It works with a philosophy it has not examined.

A psychotherapy that does not know its philosophy does not work without one; it works with a philosophy it has not examined.

What philosophy gives psychotherapy

Philosophy gives psychotherapy three questions that cannot be settled in a laboratory. The first is the question of aim: what is a good life, and who decides, the one who suffers, the one who listens, or the average? The second is the question of truth: is the aim for a person to feel better, or to learn something true about themselves, and what if the two do not coincide? The third is the question of freedom: does psychotherapy adapt a person to the world, or help them choose within it? Centuries before psychotherapy, Spinoza wrote the whole of his Ethics as a map of human emotions and of the path from bondage to the passions to the freedom of understanding. Wittgenstein wrote that the philosopher treats a question like an illness. Each in his own way described what good psychotherapy also aims at: that a person becomes freer by understanding what moves them.

What psychotherapy gives philosophy

The relationship does not run in one direction only. Psychotherapy gives back to philosophy something it has at times forgotten: that questions about truth, freedom and the good life are not put to an abstract human being, but to a concrete one, with a symptom, a family, a body and a history. Psychoanalysis showed philosophers that reason does not rule even in its own house. A philosophy that ignores this easily becomes a beautiful theory about people who do not exist.

Why this matters to you

You do not need to read philosophy in order to choose a psychotherapy. But it is worth knowing that every approach, when it says “you will feel better”, means something specific. In interactive psychoanalysis, which is what I practise, “better” does not mean that you have adapted, but that you are freer to choose, and that this shows in life, not only in the session. So the question worth asking anyone you turn to is simple: when you say I will be better, what do you mean?

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